Ahorsesoul :slap: I am sorry, that sounds very similiar to MY husband! Sometimes he reminds me of the forgetful wolf trying to hunt "something" from Bugs Bunny!!
When we decorated our first home I was expecting our second son, 2 weeks away!!
I had told him I did not want a light carpet, and NO pinkish undertones... I did not tile with pits and dints, too hard to clean and not an obvious pattern... I really did not want any brass (popular at the time) or orange/honey wood for the kitchen.
What did I come home to find installed? Wall to wall (shudder) PINK beige carpets (with a young son, a bassett hound and a baby on the way!), with pink beige walls, going into pinkish tiles that had the very pitted surface I did not want, leading into the honey oak cabinets with brass switch plates, knobs and covers.
In my very emotional state I sat down on my PINK carpet and cried. (I delivered two days later) We brought our second son home to a teddy bear picnic room, pink carpets and pink beige walls.
Good luck :leprechaun: