Today, I read the recent issue of "Real Simple" magazine at the library. There was an article about "making Thanksgiving easier on the Hostess". It suggested asking guests to bring specific things. Which seems fine and normal -- especially when the guests are family and/or friends. Although I think it is nice when people have choice in the items they bring.
The writer of the article suggested selecting recipes for the side dishes for the dinner. And then, saying something like "I have a recipe for a dish that would go really well with our Thanksgiving menu. Would you like to prepare it?"
How would you feel if your hostess asked you that question? Personally, I would feel pressured into making the "new recipe". And I would be very nervous that it wouldn't turn out well. I am not sure I would like to participate in such a "controlled" event as that Thanksgiving dinner.
I would much prefer to make something that I do well and is traditional -- or buy something -- like delicious pies from a good bakery.
What do you think?
If I am hostess - I do love it if people ask if they can bring things to Thanksgiving dinner. And - they tell me what they want to contribute. But it is what THEY want to contribute. Not what I try to "force them" to contribute.
The writer of the article suggested selecting recipes for the side dishes for the dinner. And then, saying something like "I have a recipe for a dish that would go really well with our Thanksgiving menu. Would you like to prepare it?"
How would you feel if your hostess asked you that question? Personally, I would feel pressured into making the "new recipe". And I would be very nervous that it wouldn't turn out well. I am not sure I would like to participate in such a "controlled" event as that Thanksgiving dinner.
I would much prefer to make something that I do well and is traditional -- or buy something -- like delicious pies from a good bakery.
What do you think?
If I am hostess - I do love it if people ask if they can bring things to Thanksgiving dinner. And - they tell me what they want to contribute. But it is what THEY want to contribute. Not what I try to "force them" to contribute.