I found a wonderful wonderful idea I want to share-You may have already heard of this idea, but this article lays it out beautifull for you and I would love to adopt this tradition in our family! I think it would help with not only focusing on giving, but also with the letdown that can be felt after Christmas Day-
http://rhythmofthehome.com/archives/winter-2010/twelve-days-of-giving/
http://rhythmofthehome.com/archives/winter-2010/twelve-days-of-giving/