I need some advice.
Year before last we ended a tradition of family portraits because one DIL decided that it wasn't convenient for them, with a 3 month advance notice. After all, what's a family picture if the whole family isn't in it.
This week the same DIL informs me that they will NOT be participating in the family gift exchange because they are building a house and won't be able to afford it. Our gift exchange is between the adults. Each person draws a name and purchases a $50 gift for the person they drew. Now I could understand if they were in dire straights but this is not the case.
The problem is that my son already drew a name and their names have been drawn so apparently she forgot to inform him of this as well. I don't like to get in my kids business but they are really beginning to upset me. I don't know what to do or how to handle this. I try to be very open to change and even making new traditions but to consistently have the same ones just sabatage traditions for the sake of it is heartbreaking.
Year before last we ended a tradition of family portraits because one DIL decided that it wasn't convenient for them, with a 3 month advance notice. After all, what's a family picture if the whole family isn't in it.
This week the same DIL informs me that they will NOT be participating in the family gift exchange because they are building a house and won't be able to afford it. Our gift exchange is between the adults. Each person draws a name and purchases a $50 gift for the person they drew. Now I could understand if they were in dire straights but this is not the case.
The problem is that my son already drew a name and their names have been drawn so apparently she forgot to inform him of this as well. I don't like to get in my kids business but they are really beginning to upset me. I don't know what to do or how to handle this. I try to be very open to change and even making new traditions but to consistently have the same ones just sabatage traditions for the sake of it is heartbreaking.
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