There is a quote on http://www.thebratfactor.com today - which I really liked. It is:
"Striving for excellence is inspiring; striving for perfection is demoralizing." by Harriet
I am guilty of seting some sort of image in my mind -- and then beating myself up because I haven't achieved it. (And the beating up can go on for long, long periods of time - like months or years.) The beating up keeps me quite busy - too busy to enjoy beautiful moments during the day. Too busy for happiness and gratitude. (I can keep myself occupied all year fretting about the fact that my office/guest room isn't organized. I can make myself feel sick to my stomach anytime at all just by thinking about it. It is truly demoralizing.) I don't like it and I am going to try not to do it. :globe:
"Striving for excellence is inspiring; striving for perfection is demoralizing." by Harriet
I am guilty of seting some sort of image in my mind -- and then beating myself up because I haven't achieved it. (And the beating up can go on for long, long periods of time - like months or years.) The beating up keeps me quite busy - too busy to enjoy beautiful moments during the day. Too busy for happiness and gratitude. (I can keep myself occupied all year fretting about the fact that my office/guest room isn't organized. I can make myself feel sick to my stomach anytime at all just by thinking about it. It is truly demoralizing.) I don't like it and I am going to try not to do it. :globe: