I've been stalking, er....reading this since it started. I never had a stocking when I was a child. When I was married. Not until my kids were grown, and my sis and I, for a couple of years, use to fill them for each other. I always did one for each of the children and their spouses/girlfriends, if there was one. It got to be very expensive to fill nine stockings (including my dad and the dog!). So, I stopped for a while. Then the grandkids started coming. I don't fill stockings for Sweetie's grandkids. He didn't seem to want to help, and good night shirts! I can't afford EVERYTHING for crying out loud!
Then a few years ago, DD said she would rather have one less gift and get a stocking, because it made her feel like a kid again. Well, her husband fills one for her and so do her in laws. Now, I don't know if the boys have that advantage. So, for a few years, I started stockings again. I didn't last year, because it was not a very good holiday for me, and I was in a deep funk.
I don't know if, this year, I will do it for the big kids or not, but always for the DGKs. Until I cannot afford it any more. I know last year, I filled the Christmas 'lunch' bags for the kids. I had way, and I do mean WAY too many stocking stuffers. So, I saved the extras for Easter baskets.
When the school supplies are put out, I will buy crayons, pencils, glue sticks, etc for the DGKs stockings. They can always use those things. But the ideas that have been posted here are great, and I have put many of them in my notebook on the stocking stuffer page. It is so nice to have each other to bounce ideas off of, isn't it?