Christmslvr, I don't think "Me" is a selfish word at all. Last year I chose the word "rediscover" for much the same reasons as you. I had forgotten the me that I had been. Even my mom had commented on it and still does on some days. She's left me some sweet little notes about getting back to who is used to be. I think it's important to take care of us, and how can we do that if we don't focus on ourselves? By taking care of ourselves mentally, physically, and emotionally, we are also taking care of our families....so, no, "ME" is not a selfishword. I'm glad you've chosen it!