Lana, I told my mom the other day, "I've decided someday is now!" I have things I don't use because I'm "saving them," but I decided that if I don't use them now, when will I. I know exactly what you mean about what you said. Having grandchildren gives you a different prospective...wanting to be healthy - or even alive - to see them grow up and be physically able to do things with them. Sometimes we do have to be selfish with our time to be able to take care of ourselves and our families/homes.
Tanya, you stated a lot of what I feel. I'm a "good" time waster and need to find that balance, too, between what I need and want to do and not take on more than I can do in the time I have.