I am feeling very blessed this year. After two horrible years- we had a house fire, lost everything, lost my dad to cancer, and got evicted same weekend, lived in a homeless shelter, lived with my mom, I am just really greatful for what we have. We now have our own house, and it seems like the rough is going to get better. We are involved in a really great church and have good jobs. I want to have christmas be more about giving then getting, because my kids just seem to be into the getting part, no matter how many times we have been thankfull for people helping us out-I know I am going to sign us up to help label at the local harvesters and to help ring bells for salvation army. What else can we do?I am not worried about gifts- the kids birthdays are right before christmas and they will still get a few christmas gifts from us but not a lot this year. any idea guys?