I love the idea of the video birthday party! If you both have access to webcams, you could do a real time party over the internet. You'd have to work around the time difference, but maybe it could work.
DS will be 15 the 5 days before Valentine's Day. I try to refrain from much pink and white decorating before his birthday. I had a female co-worker who said she always hated having to have her cake, decorations, etc. correspond with the Valentine's theme, so it must be worse for a guy
. Anything overly pink, heart-shaped and lacy comes out the day after his Birthday.