The things I can't change bother me most, particularly that I have to shop for all our gifts from DMIL and give detailed lists to everyone else who buy exactly what is on the list. I mean really! Why can't they take a few minutes to think about what we might like. We're pretty multi-faceted and even thrifty. It's not like we look for big presents. I don't understand that I have to tell them the exact book, the exact color, the exact puzzle, etc. I want Christmas to be fun again and I don't really remember the last time it was. Somehow it has devolved into just more work for me.
What I can fix... start my handmade gifts earlier, host an open house starting again in 2011, get tickets to a concert or show, go to a church pagent (ours doesn't have one), go caroling. These are the things I miss and love.