Ok so here's the scenerio... my DH has been laid off for 13 weeks and we are a single income family. (I'm a special needs/stay at home/mom and foster mom) For my in-laws Christmas is all about stuff. They can afford whatever they want, however they have requested sweaters for each of them (although refuse to give sizes/styles), clothes, movies etc. I don't know what to do. This really isn't my thing. For my family it's homemade gifts and time together--so trying to play the game after 11 years just feels frustrating. On one side: do I request sizes again?? Do I do a gift card to a store?? Which store? How Much?? Do I just do what we can and home make it when I know they don't appreciate the time/effort???