It's going to be hard next Christmas.My dad had a stroke om Christmas eve after we had pizza with my 10 yr old and they brought our presents.Christmas morning they did brain surgery to stop bleeding.He's been on a ventilator since then.He has Cirrhosis and it's going to be any day now.I've been devastated I'm the oldest and both of us are daddy's girls.My sister is on her way home from ft hood my bil is army.My mom just lost her mom 6 months ago.My parents would have been married 39 yrs in April(together since my mom was 19).I know he wouldn't want me to greive too long