I'll put both the recipe and the story/memory in the same post as the memory is about the candy anyway
As far back as I can remember my Gram always made Date Nut Roll candy every Christmas, as we grandkids came to be she started doing a roll of it for each of her daughters families and 1 to keep at her house, I have 4 aunts. As we kids all started getting older and seeing how much we loved the date nut roll, she'd make sure she always had some in the fridge at her house through the holidays. She knew that as soon as I hit the front door I'd be yelling "Gram, I'm here and love ya!" as I ran for the kitchen and the date nut roll
In January of 1982 she had me cutting out squares for a quilt she said she wanted to make for her bed and told me she'd "pay" me in date nut roll to cut them out for her. In May of 1982 we were sent to Germany and it just about broke my heart to have to leave Gram, she was my "sheltering rock" for the 10 years of my life up until that point. As Christmas of 1982 rolled around I begged and begged to be sent home to Gram...I remember crying on the phone one day to her and telling her Christmas would not be Christmas without her with me and she told me to just hang on a box would be there for us in the next day or two and that even if she couldn't be there physically with me she'd be there in thought and spirit and would also call Christmas morning. When mom took the phone back Gram told her to let us open our presents from her as soon as the box got there.
Gram was right, the next day a BIG box was delievered! Mom handed me my present from Gram and told me I could go ahead an open it...inside the box I found a child's sized quilt made out of the squares I had cut for Gram with a note saying she had a matching one so we could "snuggle together" and omg not 1 but 2 rolls of Date Nut Candy, some Brach's carmels, a tape with "I'll fly away" on it and a picture of Gram snuggled up with the quilts before she mailed them!! (I cried and cried...I still cry about it lol)
Finally in the end of 1984 we get orders to go back stateside and had our choice of where to go, I begged and pleaded to go "home to Gram" as that was one of our choices after they talked with Gram and she told them both "Bring my baby home to me, it's been to long without her." they agreed to come home. We would miss Christmas of '84 with Gram and would not be allowed to get a box from her because of packers coming and such but I was ok with it...I knew I was going home to her.
We were to be home January 31st, 1985 but missed the stupid connecting plane in Dallas...it took off 5 minutes before our plane even landed, so we spent the night in a little cafe that was suppose to be closed, the manager kept it open so we'd have somewhere to sit/lay down on the benches and made sure we kids had things to drink and snack on and mom and dad had coffee.
February 1st, we landed at our home airport, Gram had left her car for us and taken a cab to work as she couldn't take another day off. As we got to her house and walked in the door...there was the Christmas tree all lite up with presents under the tree!!! A box of chocolates and nuts on the coffee table and a note telling us to visit the fridge. We all went to the kitchen and discovered that she had a ham in the oven, pecan, pumpkin and mince meat pies on the counters and in the fridge was...Date Nut Candy!!! She had made each one of us our very own roll of candy!!! She had put a hold on Christmas and waited for us to make it home before even allowing my cousins to have their present from her so we could all celebrate together
Gram is gone now and has been since January of '93 but I have her recipe and make it each year along with her pecan pie recipe.
Date Nut Roll Candy (by Viola Golden)
3 c sugar
½ lb dates (chopped)
½ tsp salt
1 c chopped pecans
1 c milk
2 Tbsp butter
Combine sugar, salt, butter & milk. Boil until sugar is dissolved.
Add dates & cook, stirring constantly, to soft ball stage.
Remove from heat. Cool to room temperature.
Beat until creamy & thick. Add nuts & mix thoroughly.
Pour on wet cloth, knead until smooth. Shape in roll.
Chill until firm. Cut into thin slices.